In this episode of This vs. That, we welcome back Jeff Dalrymple, the executive director of ⁠ECAP⁠ and Chairman of the Board at Anchored Virtual, as our guest host.

We spend time discussing the core principles of Anchored Virtual, focusing on what it means to be both biblically grounded and clinically informed.

Available to anyone, anywhere, and anytime, Anchored Virtual aims to provide accessible virtual counseling services both in the U.S. and globally.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Virtual. Anchored Virtual provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredvirtual.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we welcome Jeff Dalrymple, the executive director of ECAP and Chairman of the Board at Anchored Virtual, as our guest host.

We spend time discussing the mission and vision of Anchored Virtual, a biblically grounded, clinically informed virtual counseling center. We share the story of our journey, how we began, and how we've grown, highlighting our dedication to making counseling accessible worldwide.

We also talk about the personal lives and stories of the team members, giving listeners a glimpse of the people behind the mission.

This episode provides a deeper understanding of who we are and what we do at Anchored Virtual.

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We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Virtual and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Rebecca McLaughlin and Ed Welch.

Rebecca and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing.

For more information or to register, visit:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠events.anchoredvirtual.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Virtual. Anchored Virtual provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredvirtual.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we talk with Dr. Russell Moore, the editor in chief of Christianity Today and author of the book Losing Our Religion: an Altercall for Evangelical America.

We discuss a variety of topics, from the current state of politics and its impact on the church, to the personal struggles individuals face within this politically charged environment.

We also explore the concept of political engagement versus political idolatry, delving into the nuances of each and their implications for our spiritual lives.

Join us for a thought-provoking conversation.

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We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Virtual and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Rebecca McLaughlin and Ed Welch.

Rebecca and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing.

For more information or to register, visit:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠events.anchoredvirtual.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Virtual. Anchored Virtual provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredvirtual.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we engage in a thought-provoking conversation with Dani Treweek.

Joining us from Sydney, Australia, Dani is a renowned Christian theological researcher, author, speaker, and the founding director of Single Minded Ministry. We discuss her work, which focuses on exploring God's purposes for singleness and equipping Christians.

Throughout our discussion, we touch on the intricacies of singleness within the church and the societal pressures that surround it. We also address the gendered experiences of singleness and the challenges that come with it.

Finally, Dani provides insightful perspectives on celibacy and sexual stewardship within the Christian faith. This episode offers much-needed conversation for both single and married listeners.

Resources Mentioned:

• Single Minded Ministry - A parachurch ministry focused on exploring God's purposes for singleness and equipping Christians. It features a resource library with extensive materials on singleness and related topics, available at www.singleminded.community.

• The Meaning of Singleness: Retrieving an Eschatological Vision for the Contemporary Church - A book by Dani Treweek that provides a dense, robust exploration of the theological and eschatological significance of singleness.

• Seven Myths About Singleness - A book by Sam Allberry that challenges common misconceptions about singleness, offering a biblical perspective that affirms the value and importance of singleness in the Christian life.

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We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Virtual and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Michael Keller and Ed Welch.

Michael and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing.

For more information or to register, visit:

⁠⁠⁠⁠events.anchoredvirtual.com⁠⁠⁠⁠

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Virtual. Anchored Virtual provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredvirtual.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we welcome Tim Challies. Our conversation centers around the challenging and deeply personal topic of grieving with hope versus grieving without hope.

We explore how Tim's faith shaped his response to loss, the role of lament in the grieving process, and how to navigate the difficult balance between accepting God's decree and dealing with personal sorrow.

This episode is an insightful journey into the spiritual and emotional aspects of grieving, providing listeners with a thoughtful perspective on a universally human experience.

Resources Mentioned

• "Seasons of Sorrow" by Tim Challies
• "Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy: Discovering the Grace of Lament" by Mark Vroegop
• "When God Weeps" by Joni Eareckson Tada

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We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Virtual and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Michael Keller and Ed Welch.

Michael and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing.

For more information or to register, visit:

⁠⁠⁠events.anchoredvirtual.com⁠⁠⁠

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Virtual. Anchored Virtual provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredvirtual.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we talk with with Mark Vroegop about the concepts of frustration and anger. We explore how these emotions are often intertwined, and how they can be both righteous and unrighteous.

Mark shares his experiences at College Park Church in Indianapolis and also provides a glimpse into his personal life. We examine the complexities of these emotions in the context of our faith and our responses to a world marked by sin and brokenness.

We also discuss the balance of asking questions from a place of suffering versus a place of demand. Finally, we contemplate how dealing with these emotions requires strong theological foundations and faith.

Resources Mentioned

• "Good and Angry" by David Powlison
• "Respectable Sins" by Jerry Bridges
• "Future Grace" by John Piper
• "Waiting on God" by Andrew Murray
• "The Rare Jewel of Christian Contentment" by Jeremiah Burroughs
• "How Does Sanctification Work?" by David Powlison

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We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Virtual and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Michael Keller and Ed Welch.

Michael and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing.

For more information or to register, visit:

⁠⁠events.anchoredvirtual.com⁠⁠

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Virtual. Anchored Virtual provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredvirtual.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we have an enriching conversation with John Starke about the importance of balancing talking and listening in prayer. John shares valuable insights from his book, The Possibility of Prayer, and highlights the transformative power of stillness.

As we explore the challenges many Christians face with prayer, John explains the significance of allowing our anxieties and guilt to rise to the surface and how these 'intolerable things' can be healed through prayer.

We also discuss how interpreting and applying scripture can guide us in our communication with God. Join us as we navigate these essential aspects of the Christian life.

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We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Virtual and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Michael Keller and Ed Welch.

Michael and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing.

For more information or to register, visit:

⁠events.anchoredvirtual.com⁠

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Virtual. Anchored Virtual provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredvirtual.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we welcome back Jonathan Holmes, executive director at Fieldstone Counseling. Together, we explore the complex topic of humility versus self-loathing. We examine how these two concepts can often be confused and how this issue frequently arises in counseling.

Jonathan offers insightful responses to challenging questions about self-esteem, self-care, and humility, allowing us to comprehend the nuanced differences between self-loathing and true humility. We also discuss the influence of self-perception on our experiences and the importance of focusing on God's voice in our lives.

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We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Virtual and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Michael Keller and Ed Welch.

Michael and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing.

For more information or to register, visit:

events.anchoredvirtual.com

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Virtual. Anchored Virtual provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredvirtual.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we have a fascinating conversation with Dave Harvey, the president of Great Commission Collective and the author of several books on marriage.

We discuss the differences between normal and critical conflicts in marriage and how to navigate them. During our chat, Dave shares his insights on the importance of humility and clarity in resolving conflicts. We also explore how our understanding of conflict within the context of marriage can be transformed by God's redemption and grace.

Join us as we learn from Dave's experiences and wisdom in managing marital conflicts and promoting a healthier and stronger marital relationship.

Resources Mentioned:

• "When Sinners Say I Do" by Dave Harvey
• "I Still Do" by Dave Harvey
• "The Meaning of Marriage" by Timothy Keller
• "New Morning Mercies" by Paul David Tripp
• "Instruments in the Redeemer's Hands" by Paul David Tripp
• "War of Words" by Paul David Tripp
• "Trusting God" by Jerry Bridges

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Since 1893, Hephzibah House has been a beacon of Christian hospitality in the heart of New York City. Located in a Victorian townhouse, ministry leaders from all over the world come for peaceful, affordable overnight stays, whether they are coming for rest, retreat, or just to enjoy the city. If you are in full-time ministry and have plans to visit New York, book your stay at  hhouse.org. HHouse can also host conferences, ministry events and group stays. You can even record your podcast in the on-site recording studio. Follow us on Instagram at @hhousenyc

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Virtual. Anchored Virtual provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredvirtual.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we explore the topic of Authoritarian vs. Authoritative Parenting. Join us in this conversation with Julie Lowe, a counselor and faculty member at CCEF, as she shares her insights on the distinction between these two parenting styles. ⁠

We explore the importance of understanding the root motivations behind our parenting choices and how they impact our children. Discover how embracing a gospel-centered approach can lead to a healthier and more loving relationship with our kids. ⁠

Tune in for practical advice on fostering a grace-filled environment where authority is exercised with gentleness and wisdom. ⁠

Don't miss this enlightening conversation that challenges traditional parenting formulas and encourages parents to prioritize the well-being of their children above achieving societal standards of success.⁠

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Virtual. Anchored Virtual provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredvirtual.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

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The statistics are staggering. 1 in 3 girls and 1 in 7 boys are abused before the age of 18. As Christians who care for the vulnerable, what can we do about it?

The Evangelical Council For Abuse Prevention invites you to the Safeguards 4 Kids Tour with counselor and author Julie Lowe. This event is for parents, grandparents, caregivers, ministry leaders, and pastors who want to gain wisdom and discernment so they can have age-appropriate conversations with the kids in their lives about abuse and threats.

In addition to Julie's presentation, there will be brief presentations addressing human trafficking and internet safety for kids. The Safeguards 4 Kids Tour will include live events in six cities including:

• Jacksonville, Florida - March 2nd
• Orlando, Florida - March 9th
• Webinar - April 4th
• Kansas City - April 6th
• Tampa , Florida - August 17th
• Dallas, Texas - September 21st (Livestream Available)
• Washington, D.C. - Fall

Admission to Safeguards 4 Kids is free but registration is required. For more information and to get registered visit: safeguards4kids.org

Sponsorship opportunities are still available. Anchored Virtual is a proud sponsor of the Safeguards 4 Kids Tour.